How to make you cat love you, and want to coudle with you? It's not that hard, believe me I'm been there…..
1. Be honest your feeling
Animals are really sensitive, they know are you really like them or not, so be sure when you try to approch a cat, make sure you send it them a good energy and gentle feeling.
2. Give them a penty space
They are not like a dog like to coudle with you 24 hours, if some of dog don't like to do that anyway, give them some space to digest their emotion and feeling, when they ready they will come find you or seek on you. 🙂
All the human want a little privacy each day also, so treat them a same way.
3. Say something when you approch and feed them
Some of cat lose their trus on human(specially if they live on the street before), or have a bad relationship with some owner (or owner friend, lover….) if that's the situation, check on this one.
Before you approch them said their them gently and say I'm coming to see you, and don't get to close sitting like couple feet away and look at them say hi, ans blink gently to them.
Same thing when you approch say some thing gently and gently put their food down, if they get closer to eat, that a good sign, and you stay back to see how their reaction.
Each day will be better, little bit progress per day!
4. Blink to them
Make yourself comfortable and relax and blink your eyes gently to them.
I bet you saw that on TV before, Yes it's work, but take some time to take them close to you.
5. Comb their fur
Use cat comb gently bush their hair, it's like their close friend helping them clean their beautiful clothes, but if they walk a way then stop. Each time try like 10 – 15 second then longer next time, they will get use to it.
My cat would turn other side, and tell me to keep going. 🙂
6. Take them a walk
My cat is from street, so it's like adventure to him, he like to go out a lot, if you worry he will get lost, them I will suggest to get a patio for cat, can let them when out look some birds and enjoy their nature.
7.Play with them
They like to play also, just not quite like a dog, my cat love feather toy, anything have feathers on, he turn in a hunting mode. play with them is good to increase your relationship with your cat and you doing some small excerise for both of you.
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9. Cat tree
No matter you cat is inside or oustide, they like to enjoy sence by hight up there, make them feel control and save, you, you can put near by the window, they can enjoy all the scenery all day up there.
10. Window sit
A big window sit is the best gift for them, if in front of the window have some plant to cover them will be perfect, my cat like to hind in their and find some bug or bird to attack, but they actually in other side, but it's fun for them.
11.Plant fresh cat nip for them
They like the dry kind still, but who don't like fresh and juicy one? it's cheap to plant cat nip for them, but they might eat it all in 5 second. don't throw away when it all destroy, keep it and put a small aomout of water each day, they will grow back.
12. Give them so attention
I know what you think, You thought they like to be their own and hide it from you, that's not really true. All the animal have their special personality, some like to do thing by them own, doesn't mean they want a little bit attention by someone sometime. So if you think you cat is super independent, and they will be fine by them owm, please change that, they want to feel need it. they want you say hi when you got home, and they want you pet them say they are good girl/ boy also. Please don't for get about that.
13. Say you love them
Ok that's the cheezy part, say you love them also. All the fur companym they give you all their heart and all their attention on you. They don't ask you to do the same way, but share with your love to them are important, let them feel loved and cherish, it's feel good to you, of course to them aslo.
I like to say I love my kitty boy all the time, morning, feeding, when I blink to him, he blinked back to me and befor the sleep. He might want me to leave him alone, but I want to tell him know anytime when I have a chance, sure he won't forget! 🙂
14. Clean water
My cat is picky of drinking water, if you cat is the same way, I will suggest you give them bottle water, my cat love it, if you use water from faucet, I would change couple times per day. Bottle water I change everyday. My cat love it.
15. Clean litter box and place
Cat is clean animal, they like to be clean, same way about their bathroom too, so clean them frequelty and change cat sand each week, and wash the litter box. This is really important, if their litter box to dirty and they don't pee and poo poo in their will cause more health problem for them and your money too, so make it clean and will be a happy and health cat!
I hope this one is helpful, if you like it please share with your cat lvoer friends!
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